Trbute to those girls..

My friend poch asked me to read something last night.. a passage.. an essay about something.. i dont really know what it is.. actually, i was a bit lazy to read it.. but then when im scanning its content.. i decided to read it.. and these are the lines that struck me most..

“This is for the girls who have been there from the beginning and have heard the trite words of advice, from “there are plenty of fish in the sea,” to “time heals all wounds.”

—yes, i have heard that a million times from my friends and cousins..

“This is for the girls who have been told that they’re too good or too smart or too pretty, who have been given compliments as a way of breaking off a relationship, who have ever been told they are only wanted as a friend.”

—this happens often. guys would say that they dont deserve us because we’re too good.. but in reality they’re trying to come up with an excuse for not loving us back..”

“This is for the girls who have endured party after party in his presence, finally having realized that it wasn’t that he didn’t want a relationship: it was that he didn’t want you.”

—ouch toh dude.. as in major ouch..

“I honor you for the night his dog died or his grandmother died or his little brother crashed his car and you held him, thinking that if you only comforted him just right, or said the right words, or rubbed his back in the right way then perhaps he’d realize what it was that he already had.”

—we give our best.. but not enough for them to appreciate us.. then we think, “maybe it wasnt enough”.. we fail to realize that it was too much.. its just the sad reality that he was just too dense to even notice it..

“This is for the night you realized that it would never happen, and the sunrise you saw the next morning after failing to sleep.”

— remember that night you cant put yourself to sleep.. because you’re thinking and hoping that what you wish will happen.. like, he’s going to love you in return.. or he’s going back to you.. then you wake up realizing.. its really not gonna happen..:(

“This is for the girls who have been used and abused, who have endured what he was giving because at least he was giving something; this is for the stupidity of the nights we’ve believed that something was better than nothing, though his something was nothing we’d have ever wanted.”

— we were hurt and betrayed.. but in the end, we talk to them and tell them WE UNDERSTAND.. even if you actually dont.. we tell them that maybe we have faults too that made him do that.. eerrr.. b*llsh*t..

“This is for the girls who have been satisified with too little and who have learned never to expect anything more: for the girls who don’t think that they deserve more, because they’ve been conditioned for so long to accept the scraps thrown to them by guys.”

—for those who think less of themselves and more of their partner.. this is a tribute to you.. :(

“therein lies the truth, guys: we nice girls are everywhere. But you’re not looking for a nice girl. You’re not looking for someone genuinely interested in your intermural basketball game, or your anatomy midterm grade, or that argument you keep having with your father; you’re looking for a quick fix, a night when you can pretend to have a connection with another human being which is just as disposable as the condom you were using during it.

— im out of words.. so true.. im not generalizing though.. its just that, IT HAPPENS.. not all girls are lucky enough to find a guy who would never hurt them.. who would sweep them off their feet and treat them the best way..:( so sad.